Discovering what your goddamn problem is, is indeed much like getting to the top of a mountain somewhere. You're out of breath, angry, sore, and in need of rest. But as you stand at that peak, and the swirling snow briefly wisps a clearing, you see you're standing at the base of another gigantic mountain perched precariously on top of the one you've just damn near killed yourself in an effort to scale.
That one? Mt. Figure out what to do.